A celebration of simplicity

I generally avoid wedding parties, as they often feel overly extravagant. However, today I made an exception, and I’m glad I did. The simplicity surrounding this event drew me in from the very start.

The story is heartwarming: the groom, seeking a halal companion, expressed his wish to marry early. His parents, supportive of his decision, found a suitable match but reminded him that providing for the bride’s mehar was his responsibility, which he graciously accepted.

Without any unnecessary fanfare or traditional pomp, they set a date and conducted the nikah in the bride’s city, bringing her home in a simple, heartfelt ceremony.

The walima was a beautiful reflection of this simplicity. The invitation even included a clear end time, which was a refreshing change from the typical drawn-out events. Usually, the bride is either still at the parlour or the groom is busy with a celebration dance when guests arrive, leaving the stage empty and food unserved until they arrive. It always felt somewhat disrespectful to guests, but this walima was the opposite. Both the bride and groom were present on time, and it felt like a warm, respectful welcome.

The hall was tastefully decorated without excessive display, and the food was simple yet delightful.

There weren’t an overwhelming number of dishes, but each item was well-prepared, hot, and satisfying—exactly what guests want. Moreover, there were no photographers hovering around the bride or zooming in on guests as they ate. The atmosphere was peaceful and enjoyable.

It had been a long time since I witnessed such a heartfelt, uncomplicated walima. Simplicity, when embraced, has its own beauty and warmth. I hope more people adopt this approach, investing their energy and resources in meaningful, value-driven celebrations rather than the extravagant, showy weddings that are becoming all too common.

Wishing the lovely couple a lifetime of happiness and health. Ameen.